If you are like many of the women I work with, you have either just discovered your husband’s affair or have been told by him that he is leaving you for someone else.
Although he is the one having the affair, he may be blaming you for a loss of connection in your relationship.
Before you throw in the towel on your marriage, take a closer look at whether your marriage can still be saved.
The investment it takes to do that is worth being able to clear your mind and breathe easy again.
We all have an image of the other woman in our heads: the calculating predator who moves in on happily coupled men. The office sexpot who's always just a little too close to your guy at his holiday party. And that's exactly why the OW is such an object of fascination: Why does she do it? But then he'd pull me into bed and my good intentions would fall away as quickly as our clothes.
Remembering the negative aspects of your marriage can go a long way in helping alleviate any the unpleasant idea of him/her dating again. I’m sure you’ve heard that saying, “The best revenge is living well.” Well, it’s true!It's not my belief that you set out be the other woman.No one, I think, chooses to be thought of as slut, homewrecker, or "other" but then there is a moment that each one of us can recognize as defining.Whether the divorce was your idea or your spouse’s, most people find themselves experiencing negative emotions when their ex-spouse starts dating again. Here are 6 tips that will help you process those negative emotions: 1. You spent a large part of your life with this person, and during the years you were together, dating and married, you came to think of that person as YOUR significant other. These are common questions you may ask yourself when your ex-spouse starts dating again.It would be less of a punch in the gut if you had watched your marriage going down hill for some time, but often with men, that isn’t the case.